‘just fucking talk to your girlfriend, man’ & ‘the third stage of limerence’
Jack Bordnick's sculptures and photography incorporate surrealistic, mythological and magical imagery often with whimsical overtones — aimed at provoking our experiences and self reflections. Aiming to unbalance our rational minds, the predominant imagery deals mostly with facial expressions of both living and “non-living” beings, and things that speak to us in their own languages. They are mixed media assemblages that have been assembled, disassembled and reassembled, becoming abstractions unto themselves
just fucking talk to your girlfriend, man
he sighs into his drink, says
he doesn’t know what to do, like
the answers aren’t buried in
the seams of her silence. he stares
at ice melting, like it might tell
him how to fix what he refuses to
name. she has stopped filling
the space between them with soft
affirmations, easy laughter, and he sits
there, a monument to self-pity, waiting
for the girl who never asked for
anything. he says, ‘she’s been
distant.’ she thinks, ‘you’ve been blind.’
a girl who has become fragments of
a puzzle, waiting to be solved by anyone
but the man seated across her. yet
she still lets him pour his soul into her
as though her heart were a vessel, instead
of a beating thing of its own.
the third stage of limerence
who calls at two just to talk glazes and
kiln firings, coiling and scoring, bisque versus
greenware— teasing their sculpting of hands
harder than searching for the right shade
of ashy brown? a man, at the end of a long
day, plays a song, her name woven through
lyrics, laughing, they must have written this
for you. what do you call him as he ruffles hair,
wraps arms around shoulders now covered
in slip— when another woman waits
in a darkened loft, her lamp the only glow
he follows? who she wants to like, seems
nice, maybe rougher where she’s too soft, but
his girl— don’t dwell. don’t be
the friend, the ‘hey can we talk?’ recipient. don’t
pretend the way he lingers means more than it does.
step back.
let silence settle where laughter used to be. pretend
not to care even as his name still maps
in condensation on a fogged-up window. palm
to the glass, pretending the warmth belongs to—
but he is not coming back. she will
turn corners, disappointment
and relief flickering at the sight
of empty space—
Brianna Roberto is a 22-year-old artist and writer based in Fremont, CA whose work has been featured in multiple publications and exhibitions. Having just finished her undergraduate program at Santa Clara University, earning a B.A. in both Child Studies and Studio Art, she is continuing her graduate studies at SCU to earn a Masters in Education. More of her work can be found at colorbybri.com.